This is the day you've been dreading and you're so kind to come here and let us know - and to think of me. Such a gracious soul. Your husband has made the mistake of his life - the Lord knows it and we all know it, as do your children.
You still have the graces of the Sacrament of Marriage that you took that will guide you through this miserable process - that I can see are guiding you even as you write today.
Thank God your children will not attend his adulterous pseudo marriage - or non-covenant marriage as they are called. He is just play-acting. I wonder in his heart of hearts how much deep guilt he really has. He may cover it up with lots of bluster, but it's got to be under there somewhere. The Holy Spirit is listening to your prayers by working on your husband. He can't be, nor should be be, too comfortable in his sinning life.
I do wish for you days of serenity and peace. You know you fought this every step of the way and loved your husband all through. You raised beautiful and successful children and have precious grandchildren and never left them to wonder if they could count on you as he has. You have so much to offer God.
We'll have a nice, long talk when you get done with school - maybe even a visit.
Treat yourself well and know that God is with you.
