I know, from this guys point of view anyway, that 2 things men hate to hear is "Is there something wrong?", and "We need to talk"!
You'll probably be doing good at staying away from these statements. Maybe just open up the door by reassuring him that you're available for him if he wants to talk. If he wants to talk to you about ow, it is then ok to get the cast iron frying pan and hit him over the head!
It's very understandable to be paranoid right now. After all, how much crap have we all been through?! I'm doing great, and still get scared at times. The fear does eventually come less often, and doesn't last near as long.
You go, girl! you're doing great! Enjoy the good times, and use these times to grow closer.
Glad you got your tapes, and looking forward to doing the group with you! It's already off to a GREAT start! See you there!
JJ
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