Quote: Wow I see there is not alot of positve things to say about scheduled sex. I did read a few posts by an LD women on here who said it really helped.
we are both actually really excited about this idea for several reasosn and this might really help us.
Scheduled sex will be what the two of you make of it.
I still don't get the reluctance.
Because what is dating if not a form of scheduled sex?
You make arrangements to get together on a specific day/time. You arrange your schedule around it, you get all spiffed up for it, you plan it, look forward to it, you have some form of entertainment - whether dinner or a movie and then you share some sort of sexual time.
Making time for each other when you were dating was important, it's even more important afterward you're married, IMO
