be VERY careful and read the signs of her actual behavior - NOT her words. Your situation sounds all too familiar.
I realize you are seeking solutions and thus anything that sounds like it may work, has a positive glow to it. I am not a fan of scheduling sex...this can put even more pressure on the situation I don't like the idea of scheduled sex either. But it gets complicated, because at least that is ACTION (if they agree to do it). Still, doing something they really don't want to do is not a real turn-on. I'm struggling with that right now for sure. My H SAYS he has passion for me but does not show it in any way that I consider passionate. So DO actions speak louder than words? I always thought so. When I cannot SEE it, it doesn't ring true. But maybe people are just different. I don't know. Good luck Sammy. It's not an easy situation to be in at all.
