Thought I'd post an update while I'm still waiting for my KLA tapes to arrive...
Had a really great weekend with H - I let him set the pace. I stayed over 3 nights (Thurs- Sat) and did my own thing during the days...
He played a small gig (he's a musician) Saturday night, which was a blast. It especially good for him to be able to do that - he hasn't been out to play much this past year he needs it (used to be a problem) plus lots of our mutual friends and some damaged fences Felt really good.
Small thing: When we got back to the normal routine this week though (work, etc.), I notice myself nervously looking around for potential bombs - why IS that?? Things are going really well, but I'm paranoid it's going to go sideways.
I don't want to be always asking him if anything is wrong just because I'm afraid. I've created a couple of unnecessary mountains out of molehills that way. Yeeeesh. I know better than that.