"Since H was staying elsewhere for the holiday, I took the opportunity to go to our house and do a “cleansing” – sounds silly, but I burned dried Sage leaves in all the rooms as a way of getting rid of negative “vibes”."
I like that! That's been a difficult thing for us, om was living in our house for a while. For a long time, there were constant reminders and evidence of this. W's been pretty good about trying to change and fix some of this.
You might keep the thought of doing some remodeling and redecorating when (or before) you move back in (positive thinking, right?!). It helps to "exorcise" some of the "bad ju-ju demons" out of the house! (Wolfbane and garlic helps also!)
It helps to get things off to a fresher start, helps in creating a NEW life together! Something that the two of you can do together, and hopefully have fun with!
[ January 04, 2002: Message edited by: Jamesjohn ]
JJ
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