Quote: A creates a mindset where a great deal of time has been spent wiping the memory clean of any commonalities etc in order to legitimize the A. It might take work to bring that stuff back
I want to ask my H if he still believes we mostly fought during our 8yrs together , which was what he believed when he left last Sept., I wonder how much of our good memories are left, would it be wise to ask?
Seeing each other 2 days out of the week doesnt leave much time to do stuff together. That's something to think about though, to do stuff together we used to do.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
