CM, I think it was in DR but I read that when one S is not willing to go for C the other often believes that person to be disinterested in the R. But in reality it could just mean that person is not interested in working the R in the same way the other S wants to. I think that is what GH means when he talks of differing perspectives. Maybe you H is not a book kind of guy. Try something else rather than continuing to shove the book at him because you think it is the right way to deal with your R issues. It becomes your cheeseless tunnel to continue on this track. It also creates more resentment in you which is no good for the R either. If he's like most of us guys just find him a R video/DVD so that he can use the remote control and you'll bag him for life
