Yes, it does say it all. I wish there was a private message function here for me to contact you - there's a hell of a lot more to it than meets the eye.
But here's the issue - your husband isn't reading it, you are.
So where does that leave you?
Well, look at your decisions, how you define yourself, and your answer to my question about what's missing. Not to sound like a smart-ass, but I KNEW when I asked about what was missing, the answer would be relationship-based, and it would include the roles you have in the family. To share a life with your husband, you both have to have lives to share. Do you? Does he? When men are asked what they do, they'll answer by talking about their jobs and hobbies, but if there was a woman president, she'd turn it into a relationship discussion, about kids or husband, very quickly - it's not right or wrong, it's just the way we're wired. Cunningham has that nailed, and the research and intelligence to prove it. Buy his book, read his newsletters, and keep trying to sway your husband in that direction. Oh, and let him be successful - if you treat him like he's faking it for ONE SECOND, it's over.
And most importantly, ACHIEVE something - as long as you're looking only to your marriage for satisfaction, you're going to feel something is missing. That something is YOU. The enormous flaw in the GAL theory is that it's treated as a tactic, short term and meant to get a reaction. Don't GAL for FUN - actually GET a life. Achieve something, don't just DO something. Get it? BIG difference. I'll keep thinking. You keep looking at Cunningham's stuff. I know the man. He's the real deal- not some internet thief. But don't think the answer is to fix your husband - the answer is to become powerful yourself, with plans, goals, and the will - WILL to make them happen. One caution, and I might say it again and again - be relentlessly realistic and logical about what you're doing, and separate facts from emotions. It isn't easy, and if I had to guess from your username, "Crazed", you might be self-destructing yourself, offering up an excuse for irrational decisions or rejection of facts. I'd love it if you tell me I'm wrong, by the way - no ego here!
