Hi Lee!

"Of course, I still fantasize about running into her next week (a definate possibility)"

Do you mean like how I almost ran into om last week?! Yes, be preapred for it, and stay cool. Don't go out of your way to either see or avoid her. You can show her who the better woman is!

I think you're just crazy like the rest of us. I think it's a good crazy, though. As Jimmy buffet said, "If we weren't all crazy, we would go insane!"

Careful of the "information gathering" (ok, snooping). I know it's a no-no, but I still do it occassionally. Have to be in the right frame of mind for it, and be preapared to deal with the consequences. Avoid comparing yourself with her. There IS no comparison. You are the better woman for trying to save a marriage.

Glad your H is doing all the C'ing. Hope he gets a lot out of it. Be supportive of him with this.

Keep doing what your doing. You are sounding GREAT!! Have a great weekend, and a Merry Christmas, my friend!!


JJ

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