not much to update about. w has moved some small things out but is still sleeping here. i will miss her when she leaves but understand that it has to happen. we have been getting along very well the last several days. i has taken me a long time to understand what w really wants. i am ready to give her that now. it took me sooo long to realize that, and that is why were where were at. i am trying to give her space, it will be easier when she moves out. really nothing new to my sitch.