Although you seem to be more reactive than anything else, it still is a step in the right direction. I know that on some level in my sitch I hope/feel that by appeasing my W, giving her what she wants, she'll be obligated to give me what I want. Nope. Maybe if we're able to give them space - really give them space, not just say that's what we're doing - they will decide to give it another try. Not because of anything we did, but because they were able to quiet the raging storm they're in enough to listen to their inner voice, and gain some clarity. I think what you plan to do - even though it seems like it's coming as an expression of anger and frustration - is truly detaching and giving up trying to control the situation. It's not up to you, and it's not going to happen on your schedule either. Let go, but maintain hope.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
