your right on some points, i have giving up hope, i am not going to do the things i have been doing. no more loving caring husband, friend, what ever the fu** i have been to her latly. she wants space, she has it, she needs to find her way she gets it. she is nothing but a taker now, she does not give anything, and until she does, i will not give anymore. i will not give her the satifaction of telling her to leave, i will not file for divorce, i will just let her be, to go on her journey alone, not with me following behind picking up the pieces trying to put back together, she caused this, yes i have made mistakes, but was never called on them until now. i have done everything she stated she needed me to do, and she admitts that, but she is still messed up. there is nothing else i can do, but start living my life the way i want to and i WILL NOT OPEN UP TO HER anymore until she wants me to. its up to her, stay and work on this or leave and get out of my life, HER CHOICE.
