Of course you're right - you can always choose to end it. But didn't YOU choose to stick it out? Didn't YOU choose to try and make it work? I think YOU deserve to stand by your choice and see it through with the same optimism you had before your W came home. Don't forget that your goal wasn't to get your W home, but to have a happy M. If you can't maintain your faith in your decision to work this out, than how can you expect your W to? Have some empathy for her lack of confidence in her decision, and remain detached, knowing that what she feels now has little bearing on the potential for a great M. Don't make your decisions based on her feelings, make yours based on you.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
