you know GH, it seems to me that you like her keeps thinking this is all my fault. i have to do all the changes, all the good, and maybe, just maybe she will notice and change. i have made big strides towards change. i do feel its time for her to make strides also. that all i am saying, but you like her dosent think she has a problem, its still all me and only up to me on where my r with my w goes. i guess its easy to point fingers, i am you are and she is deffently is. i will look at myself aAGAIN, and make the changes that i need to, but why do LBS have to make all the changes and the cheating wife dosent???????????????????????????????????????????