well i guess i didnt mess up too bad last night. w is emailing me, telling me she is sorry for my fishing trip being canceled, and that since that happened, that she is calling and getting some landscaping material for us to finish up the yard this weekend. she has not said anything about our talk last night. i guess that is a good thing, i dont know though. she is glad i got the pool done so we can swim in it tonight. i sure wish the aliens would give me my wife back, and take this one back with them.