i am in the shi* basket again. the first three days w was really good. had a great weekend, worked in the yard put wifes things away, even bought the kids a pool. then comes monday, (when she goes back to work) w comes home and is depressed and distant. i didnt say anything about it, just let her be in her mood. tuesday, same thing, i tried to hold back but i couldnt. asked her what was wrong, she didnt want to say, but i keep asking, and she finally said she regrets comming home, that she dosent think we click anymore, that were not good for each other. i asked her where this is comming from. she says she dont know. that she wants it to work out but dosent see how it can. she feels i have changed and she has gone down hill. she is not happy about anything. she says i have put her up on a pedistal and she just cant live up to my expetations. she says she has hurt me really bad and now dont know how to forgive herself. she says i have really tried and have done everything to save our marriage, and she has done nothing. i asked her why she wont, all she will say is she is scard. i am so confused and i am ready to give up. if she moves out for her to have more time to (figure things out) i will be done. i will not put up with this anymore. we either BOTH work at this marriage or it over. i told her that. WHY THE HELL DID SHE MOVE HOME?
