hi everyone, been a few days since i posted last, heres my update. w took me out friday and we had a great time. she even asked me to stay the night with her at her place. saturday was nice we spent the whole day together and she stayed the night with me. sunday we had another great day together with the kids. monday while taking a walk together, she brought up the r talk. we talked about our fears and what we wanted in our marriage. she told me that sh wanted to come home, but her fears are keeping her from doing that at this time. all in all our r is going soo much better now then even a month ago. i can now say that i believe we are going to make it through the hell that has been the last 6 months. i told her that from time to time i would need reasurence from her that im the only man she wants. she told me she will give me that and was sorry for every thing that has happened. we have been thru alot, it started about her wanting a divorce, to she dont love me to shes not attractive to me, all the things we hear from WAS. now she is loving and caring and truly seems to want me again, if it werent for dbing and getting a life for myself i dont think we would be together now. she has not moved home yet, so i dont know when i would consider our r in the piecing process, but hopefully soon. i want to think everyone in here that has given me great advice and hope you will still listen and give advice when i need it.
