gh your right, and when i said i ticked me off from what she was saying, that was inside, i did not show her that. i know for a fact that she wants this to work, she told me that last night, she just thinks about it too much and confuses herself. she has emailed me three times this morning already, i do validate her reasons, i just get confused with her wishy washy attitude, but i dont show her my confusion. i did ask her if this was all fake, she said no it wasnt, but i had to know that for myself, and she told me it wasnt so i will continue my persuit for happyness with her.