heres my update. tuesday night, w had d8 with her for the evening, called in the eveing and ask what me and s14 were doing, i told her we were getting ready to go for a walk. she asked if she could come along, which i let her. we had a really good walk, at one point we were discussing about selling the house and building a new one this winter. wednesday night, w called after work and wanted to know what i was doing tonight and i told her i needed to goto the store, she asked i she could come along, i said sure. had a good time, went out to one of her favorite resturants. when i took her home she started a r talk. she told me that she just wasnt getting much space and she really needed that right now. now remember she has asked for all the time that we are spending together. i told her that. she told me that she has been spending time with me because she didnt want me to get upset. (which really upset me) i then asked her if the last week was all fake. she said no, she likes spending time with me, but also needs her space. i dont know what else i can do anymore, i tried to detach and she comes around i thought because she wanted to see me. what else am i suppose to do. she also told me that the massages i have been giving her were nice she liked them but she thinks that i have been giving her to many lately. do they normally flip flop like this, or do i have a strange w?