LeeP - Nice to see things are "quietly creeping forward" for you. I hope it continues!
Zebra - I loved your how-slowly-time-moves analogy: "...it takes a long time to stop and turn a large ship. She's no longer steaming full speed toward a divorce.."
This is SO true!!!
Realizing the time and patience it takes to get a marriage back on track is truly another "art" to master. It's a whole new ball game! And what a frustrating one it can be.
I am 9 (continuous) months into reconcillation with my H and he has been living back at home for 5 mos. (WOW! I never thought I'd write THOSE words! )
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