How long would it take her to end things with you? She's been trying right? How long has it been?
My point is that no matter how bad it hurts you to think this way, she may have/may still love him, and him her. Breaking such things off is NEVER easy, nor is it particularly clean. I highly doubt that this is the true end of things but it IS a good thing and I think you need to recognize it as such.
