Zebra, Then start your own thread. Been wondering when you would wander over.
ALTL, It's called burnout. If he does not pick up his end of the R eventually, you may find something or someone else who will. I'm not so sure you always have to be workin on something new. I so happen to like being a dad and an H. Always did. I do accept full responsibility for taking care of me now. I think that is a big change.