Quote: you guys are right, and i have been that confident guy, thats why i think she is wanting to be around me.
Probably. Keep it up.
Quote: its still hard though, putting on that happy face knowing i want more.
Ok, well the trick is to not put on any face, but to BE happy. It's a fine line.
Quote: i try to be confident, but also its hard knowing that she is still seeing the other guy that i dont know anything about.
Yes, it is hard as hell. Oh, and my advice is that it's better to not know much about him. The more you know the more you'll obsess over the details.
Quote: i will go with her tonight, be happy and see where it leads, i just dont know if i will slipe up AGAIN!!!
It will go nowhere. Please, understand that. IF it goes anywhere, then fine, but accept right now that it may not. NO EXPECTATIONS!
If you don't want to slip up again, make it your main goal for tonight.
Quote: i have read it takes a month for every year you were married to fix this, man i cant wait that long. thats 17 months for me, is she worth it? i want to hope so, but that is a long time.
How long do you figure she's been suffering a marriage she felt was sucking the life out of her? I don't mean to say what she is doing is right but you need to understand that there is a real reason why this takes time. It takes time to discover and then un-do all the damage done over a 17 year time frame.
Whether you think it's important enough to stick it out that long is up to you. You can stop at any point, you have that power.
