Hi Lee! It is funny how the dynamics shift around when you can finally "let go". Throws things off-balance a bit. Keep yourself centered like you are, and don't make any sudden moves back in his direction. Enjoy this time for YOU! You deserve it.
The mixed feelings seem to be VERY normal, this is the time when you can think clearer on whether you really want him back vs. needing to have him back. You have a clearer focus on what you want and what you deserve. You have more wisdom and strength now than you had the other 2 times. As you said, he and everyone else can see it. You are a powerful magnet, baby, draw good things into your life!!
[ October 09, 2001: Message edited by: Jamesjohn ]
JJ
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