In reading this, I realize it sounds worse than it was. I have plans for our trip and my H was telling this to our friend. He was using the e-mail that we both use at home. We will be seeing this woman and her husband on this trip. She has been flirtatous with him, once very suggestively in an e-mail (he shared that one with me and wrote a wonderful limit setting letter back to her, my suggestion and his very lovely words). That happened about a year and a half ago.

He didn't say he is uninterested in my life. He told her that he didn't know what my meeting with a special person was about. If it were me and especially if I were him I'd ask about something so obviously important to my spouse.

Guess that sometimes when I try to leave out detail to get a picture across quickly some of those details make a big difference!