Your not alone Me2. I still don't know what all really happened. The difference is I really don't need to anymore.
So why are you down? Really? Is it that he is not working on the R?
Some tell me that all the stuff my W is getting involved with is an exit strategy. My response is "I don't think so, but if it is, I'm OK with that". It's funny how different people see things completely different. When you really think about it, I think these feelings and strange comments comme from fear. Let go of fear and accept what life throws at you. If things are not heading in the right direction, initiate a change.
Fourty feet is pretty big for a sail boat with only a one man crew. On one of those beautiful days when your running downwind with the chute up, I'm amazed that I could change the course of that boat by changing my position in the cockpit. Not a big change in course, but it does not need to be to take you to a different location in the long haul.