This is a very good thread. A lot of insight into what goes in. I like the Dance we all are doing. I am still struggling with the possibility that in the end he still may walk away.

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I suppose when you do something that changes the dance, then you are in the lead. If you are changing things for the better then you're DBing. Even a spouse whose running away is still dancing.
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I really like the above. It is good that even though we are the ones left behind (in a way) sometimes we can still LEAD THE DANCE.
As long as the WS is open to the dance the chances are there.

You both are very good at this.