Ah, the magnificent symmetry in the dances we dance with each other. That’s why DB works—it’s all based on psychological physics! If we can just calmly step back and watch, centered in ourselves, knowing that we are each and all ultimately alone any way, then we have a chance of figuring out how to love these other utterly fascinating humans. I think that’s true not only for our spouses but for all the important people in our lives. It probably even applies to how we interact with each other on a macro level as well.

I think we're learning.

[ October 16, 2001: Message edited by: alottolearn ]