Limboland is a tough place to be. If you push will she bolt? If you don't does she think this is a nice comfy sitch for her? I DON'T KNOW. Maybe the talk route would be good at some point where you calmly outline how her friendship with this person is really preventing you from growing in this R. Whether physical or not an emotional A can be just as damaging. At some future point this talk may be well received, who knows. No matter what, it tends to be empowering to state how you feel but often it's the way you do it that has positive or negative impact. If you are bashing someone over the head with your feelings all the time, that's bad. To be upfront but respectful, that's good. Just don't make ultimatums (unless you mean it) or be nasty. Welcome to limboland, wedge.
