Wedge, My W used to do this too. Be up to all hours of the night MSN'ing the OP etc. You can't stop her. So your options are to learn to live with it (and carry out your DB strategies) or it will drive you nuts. If you are nuts, you aren't able to DB. I, too, know how much it hurts. Have a good cry sometime, go for a run or a walk as exercies honestly helps greatly. When my W came back from her weekend rendevous with OP I went for a one hour walk, came home and had a pleasant rest of the evening. I knew if I didn't bad things might be said that were pointless. I'm sticking to what I've chosen to do to win here. You must too.
