you know i felt the same way, but in my opion if she is hugging you kissing you, and smiling at you, shes comming around. theres nothing wrong (in my opion) to tell her how you feel if you dont make her feel presured. if she is kissing and hugging and smiling, then tell her you love her. and then ask her if it is all right for you to say that, or would she perfure you didnt. i did it and she told me she loved me back. i was scared also, but i finally said why not and said it. try it, ask her if its ok or is it still too early to say it. she will tell you either way, mine did.