Since my last posting on the 7th of June, things have been great. W has been very nice and even more "touchy". I have been DBing my butt off, for a couple of weeks now and again I'd like new people around here that it works. It gives you a whole new perspective into the world of A's. If you are open minded, it will help you deal with the emotions and anger that normally comes with the situation. The first time I read DB, it just opened me up to a whole new way of dealing with my W's A.
The icing on the cake would be when my W finally tells me that the communication with OM is over. Right now, I know it's not. She acknowledges that she knows what to do, but when she's going to do it, she doesn't know. I kind of feel her pain but at the same time I'm hurting still. I quit smoking once and it wasn't easy. I had to use a nicotene patch to help me. I'm going to help her get over this OM by becoming her "patch", the new irresistible me will fix that addiction.
Ok, enough ranting, I just wanted to update the thread about what's going. Who knows, maybe my next post would say... IT'S OVER!
Oh, we're going on vacation on the last week of June for our anniversary... I didn't think we would be celebrating it, but she's all for going out of town and spending a week together with our S8.