Our team lost, that sucked but I think I broke even so I hope. Tonight she opened up and asked me if yesterday I was giving her an ultimatum. In the most sincere way I can, I said no. That conversation was brought up by the book I was reading when she asked me how it was. I did not know how else to say whatever I said yesterday was not something I had planned. She brought up that sometimes she thinks that I just do those things to make her feel bad. I reminded her that I have not done anything stupid since she saw me read that DB book. And I wasn't planning on doing anything that stupid. This is what you guys call a backslide?? I did tell her that I cannot erase whatever I said yesterday and that none of that was intentional.