I think I made a major mistake of answering a question my W asked me about the book I was reading, His Needs, Her Needs. I mentioned the part about surviving an A. The part that if the WS doesn't agree to ending contact with OP then it might call for a temporary separation.
Do I let her go on her own for now or do I just tough it out and may the best man win? If I let her stay I know she is safe and that's one thing less for me to worry about even though I know W and OM still email and talk on the phone. Right now, W is a little quiet because of our talk about possible temporary separation.
