Friday we went to see the MC to see if we can maybe start off going in a different direction, I kind of suggested the SBT way to the MC. We informed him that we kind of know what we want to do, and we just need for him to help us move forward. The MC asked my wife how involved is she with the OM, W replied they mostly talk (I still have to be convinced). She still talks to OM, email, phone probably when at work. I on the other hand am still DBing. It's tough, when I'm home and W is on the computer, I do the "AS IF". W is still curious as to what I'm doing, I guess that's a good thing.

MC had brought up this story about 2 dogs, and W has a bag of food only enough to feed 1 dog. She knows she can only feed one dog and without food the other has to die. W revised this story and made it 2 dogs and a puppy. Now W had included our son in the story. She openly said that "off course I have to pick my family", but how long is she going to sit on the fence and watch us dogs drool?

On a lighter note, she had already asked me about plans for our anniversary. We're going out of town for a week. I never really proposed to her to marry me, it just kind of happened when she found out she was pregnant. I'm thinking of getting another set of rings, cheesy as it may sound, as as symbol of starting over fresh.

That's all for now... thank you for reading and I hope you all the best in your pursuit of happiness.


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