I think it sounds right, it makes sense to me. I've been actually doing some of that the past couple of days but the stupid thing is I get carried away. One of the DO's I've read about was to be the one to end an activity before the W decides to. The other night, she thought it was nice out to cook steak out in the backyard. I prepared and cooked everything, she prepared the table, lit a couple of candles and turned off the lights. Everything was perfect until the time when stupid me mentioned what our receptionist told me. A girl at my work said she's interested in me. That kind of busted the whole evening. Now, if I knew validation then, it would have been a whole different story.