I read DB just a couple of days ago and implemented a couple of the steps suggested in the book. This is a link to my first post in the newcomer's section (I should have posted it here).
As I've posted before, 180 worked! Now, she's curious as to what has happened to me. Is it ok to discuss with her things I'm planning or just remain mysterious? What if she wants to talk about our relationship? That's ok, right, as long as I'm not the one initiating?
Feedback would be much appreciated. I haven't felt this good about myself since finding out that my W is confiding (possibly more) with OM.