Probably thousands of ways, perhaps only a hundred of these will work for you.
Keep searching ALTL. I am.
Remember, your H said he is committed. Don't assume he fully understands what that means yet. You have come too far to turn around now.
I consider life an education process. I have learned so much in the past year. I use to be so biased and ignorant. Now I'm a tad bit better. I'm gonna keep workin on enlightenment. What about you ?