WAS been out of house for 3 months, A is now 5 months old. OM is basically living an WAW apartment. WAW took me for support, support system is slow getting her the money. She is now asking for help, I told her I would be there for her but that was when OM was temporarily out of picture. She has not received any money yet but they have taken it out of my pay. She needs money, I really don't have very much cash. I have been GAL, 180s, and taking care of myself and children, all the DB stuff. Do I help her with an IOU signed by her, tell her tough luck you wanted it this way, tell her to ask OM who she thinks can walk on water?