Finding that stuff sucks! I'm wondering if finding the gift was just the icing on the cake. Why is H working so much? Sounds like there needs to be a change with where his attention is focused. Why not voice your needs. Hmmmm! perhaps you can procure some tickets for a little getaway vacation for the two of you.
Cheer up Altl, we all have these kind of days. You sense a problem. Start looking for solutions. I know you can do it.
