Welcome to the "success story" grp. and thank you for sharing the techniques you have been using to "wake up" your H to the fact that he really DOES love you and that you are great to be around.
Fortunately your crisis was a brief one compared to many,but that doesn't mean it was any less painful or devastating.
You are a very wise and courageous woman to have tackled the situation head on and as a result, make so many significant changes in yourself.It works...doesn't it?
I have learned following my own success,this is only the beginning. Principles of DBing are important tools in strengthening your relationship and in avoiding "slips'.
Hooray for you...stay in touch and continue to help youself as well the many others who are working so hard to have a similar outcome!
Jenny
[This message has been edited by 17baker445 (edited 08-21-2001).]