here is your pep talk! i think that you were right in telling your H how upset you were. he should know what your feelings are at this point and he should be supportive of those feelings. if he is not supportive, then how can things work when he does move home. will he continue to disregard your feelings then? if reconciliation is in the process, then you need to sit down and discuss/write a game plan for it. continue to pray and ask God to lead you in every direction. be very honest and upfront on issues that concern you. is he coming back to try or is he coming back with the notion that it will never happen again. piercing a marriage back together is probably just as difficult as when the "bomb" hits. you remember a lot from the past and expect things to go back to that way. DBing doesn't end when the SO comes home. it is a continual process. don't let your guard down.
