It made me so happy to hear that you and W are "doing OK". I think that when someone makes that statement on this BB, it means you're doing GREAT. Yes. It's working and that's great!
Get overwhealmed sometimes? Yeah! I'm sure that's also something we can all relate to. All of the events that are happening around us - including the terrorist attacks are horrible. I truly feel for the victims. I have a friend who's marriage is in trouble. His W's niece was killed yesterday in a traffic accident. But that doesn't mean that he should put his efforts (to get his marriage back in order) aside. That's why we continue the struggle. We can't do much personally for other people - other than giving moral support, but we can affect our own lives.