Lee & PB - Thanks for responding. It looks like I may have thought, that right now this book seems to be for us "hurt" spouses. It's helping me a lot, making me see that most of what I'm feeling is pretty normal. It's also helping to be more empathetic towards what she's going through, and hopefully my W will be ready for it soon. It addresses many of the issues that she's having a hard time dealing with, and I'm sure it would be a great help to her, also. Maybe if her C suggested it? I guess I'll know when the time is right. It's laying under my side of the bed right now, halfway exposed. If she sees it and gets curious, it's there for her.
