"After the Affair"

[Jamesjohn]

Just received my copy of "After The Affair" in the mail. Skimming through it, looks like there's a lot of good stuff in it, looking at the situation from BOTH sides.

What are the comments from those of you who have read it? Have you shared this with your spouse, or kept it for yourself? Did you openly present it to them, or just leave it laying around? How long did you wait to share it? Any special parts to emphasize, or to avoid? How much help was it to you? Etc., etc.

I'm excited about this book. Looks like it addresses some issues both my W & I have. I want her to read through it, looks like it de-emphasizes blame and looks towards solutions. I want to share it, but I don't want to force it in her face too much at this time. It seems we try to avoid the affair part of OR right now, but it's still buried in there on both of our parts.

Suggestions? Comments? Help?!?!

[This message has been edited by Jamesjohn (edited 06-01-2001).]