Marital Lust is the book jacket on display (well, at Barnes & Noble, anyway). I also bought Light His Fire and Light Her Fire. I skimmed the Fire books but read Marital Lust cover-to-cover in 4 days.

The book was written by an editor of Redbook magazine and was published this year. (The info is more recent as compared to the Fire books.) Online surveys were conducted with 5000 men and about the same number of women. The book contains the survey results in percentages.

Basically, the ML book answers the questions – what, why, and some how to’s. The best part about the book is that it goes into viewpoints and explains the differences in how men and women differ with their thinking, behavior, and feelings about s-e-x within M. This book helps fill in another puzzle piece about male/female relationships at both physical and emotional levels.

And, yes, guys – you can read about what women want, how they want it, when they want it, how you can help make them want it, and more! (The women can read the same info about men.) Interestingly enough, if you want something different in your physical relationship, the book encourages you to do something different to obtain a new result. (Where have we all heard that before?)

Just remember that we’re talking generalizations here and that you’ll have to find out your spouse’s preferences. Happy exploring . . .

Violet