quote:Originally posted by KentS: Once identified my resentment antibodies attack it with the intent to kill.
While W can no longer cause anger in me, the kids certainly can.
DBing is truley about personal change. Why I had to be 42 before I could begin to understand these concepts is a little disheartening but, I guess better late than never.
Patience is the key to change.
Hi Kent. I like your "resentment antibodies" wording. I never thought of resentment as a foreign antigen that our immune system will develop antibodies to, but what a great thought.
I also found it interesting what you said about anger and the kids. For me, the times I get angry at them usually stems from anger towards my H...I (wrongfully) displace my anger for him on the kids. Despite it being occasional, it is still wrong. But I've developed some anger antibodies and it's getting better.
I agree DBing is about personal change. I think I knew before what I know now (some of it) but only knew it subconsciously. Now, things are clear, and what a great thing it is to be able to see.
