Before the new beginning- need advice

[Jamesjohn]

Hi Lee! Been rather busy lately, hope you're doing well!

My step-D just turned 15. She WAS getting treatment, part of her re-hab aftercare, but got kicked out for "non-participation" and dirty UA's. She's soon going to enter the legal system, so we'll see where it goes from there.

I can see clearly what Michele talks about finding competent counseling. D was labeled with SOOO many different disorders, and many of the C's came to their conclusions within minutes. I only found 1 that agreed with me on the BPD, not that I have the qualifications of a professional, but I know a little about it and lived with her on a daily basis. Some of the other diagnosises were totally off base. D learned how to play the counseling game, telling people what they wanted to hear, and she fooled many C's, especially the younger, inexperienced, niave ones. Sorry if I sound bitter about this, but I guess I really am. I hope that someday she finds the help she really needs.

I'm sorry to hear about your life growing up. Must have been really tough as a kid, hard enough as an adult. I'm glad your Father was such a strong man to stick around and help you through it. It's definitely a decision and a choice, and tough to put your feelings and emotions aside.

As Michele told you, you're doing absolutely GREAT!! I would keep doing what you're doing until it stops working. Hang in there, my friend!! It sounds like your patience is paying off.