Hey, darlin'! You sound like you're doing great!! Just keep doin' what your doin', and I'm bettin' you'll be fine!
The patience you're showing is a very good thing. My W may have said it best to me once. She was talking about her relationship with her dad, how all the things he said and did as she was growing never really registered in her mind. He was wrong, he was mean, and he hated her / she hated him. Then one day it dawned on her, WHAM, that he was right about a lot of things, and he really did love her. He showed her a lot of love and patience through her times of troubles. Her and her Daddy are very close now, and she loves and respects him immensely. I guess you could consider that a success story.
You can borrow that phrase anytime, honey!!! Keep up the good work!!
JJ
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